Pssst.
Don't give up.
You've made it so far.
You've been through so much.
Let the past serve as a constant reminder to never give up.
Don't lose it.
You've been handling it well.
You will continue to make the best choice.
Don't let irrationality rule over what you truly want.
Be yourself, be happy.
No point living a life in sadness.
Always, always hold on to the basic element in life - happiness.
Don't let obstacles get to you. Find your way to get over all of it.
You know whatever happens, you'll live through it.
You'll stand back up as a better and stronger person.
Just like you always do..
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Communication is really important. It is essential to mutual respect, understanding and comprehension. It is the basis between any two persons. When conflict arises, communication ways would determine how the argument would end. Communication is a life-long skill. Some people take years to grasp it, while some are just naturally good at communicating. They are able to entice people when speaking with them. They know the exact moments to pause or to listen. They know the exact words to say and the appropriate variation of tone.
Sometimes, even the best communicator fault. This can happen when emotions take over. Many of us are victims to the former - we let our emotions get hold of us and many a times when this happens, we say things that we later regret in future. We speak deliberate words to hurt the people around us, or it can be that we are just not as careful with the words and tones we use in such situations.
Don't let emotions blur your rationality. Don't let these careless words cause damages that you can never undo.
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Take some time to understand the ones you care for around you. Take some time to understand how to express care, concern and love to them based on their preferences of receiving these. People express love and care in many ways and when people do not love you the way you want them to, it doesn't mean they do not love you. It just means they are doing it in the way that they feel most comfortable with and the way that they feel is the most effective.
You just gotta make some adjustments.
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Nerd mode :)